I ran over to his place and tried this stuff I read that was suppose to fix the problem but didn't, in fact when you go to start>settings the control panel wasn't there but after trying this stuff now the internet isn't even under setting only the taskbar something or other I need help bad. Here is what I tried
nosetfolders.vbs - Disable/Enable Control Panel and Printer folders on Start Menu/Settings
© Doug Knox - rev 02/06/2000
This code may be freely distributed/modified.
Usage: Download nosetfolders.vbs Save the file to the folder of your choice. Double click the VBS file. The VB Script file will check for the appropriate value and if not found will create it. If the value was found, it will be toggled to its opposite state and you will be informed that you need to log off/back on or restart your computer. Note: This also disables Control Panel in My Computer. This script can be viewed in Notepad or any text editor, as to the specific Registry key and value that are updated. Your antivirus software may report this script as potentially malicious, or a possible virus. This is because the script writes to the System Registry.
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Other things to try
Control Panel - Icons Missing
Click Start, Run and enter REGEDIT
Go to: HKEY_CURRENT_USER\Control Panel\don't load
Look in the right pane and you'll see the Control Panel Icons that have been disabled. You can either right click on the "don't load" subkey and select Delete to restore all disabled icons, or you can right click on each of the items in the right pane and select Delete to selectively restore them. Scroll up to Control Panel Applets for a listing of what each one is.
The change will be seen the next time you open Control Panel.