Hi,
I'll address some of the issues discussed above if I can...
Our site (in it's current incarnation) is a couple years old, and although we looked different from most of the sites running Invision then, there are now many sites that resemble ours aside from subtle differences.
We do have 6 board skins to choose from, so you're not stuck with our standard 'Blue Skies' on the forum. To look at the other available skins, go to:
Controls > Skin and Languages, then select a skin from the drop menu and preview it. If you find one you like, leave it showing in the drop menu, and click 'Change my account options'.
The 'My Assistant' verbage isn't hard coded into the HTML. It's in the language files, and I've now changed it to 'SAF Assistant'.
I changed the text in the right side of the member bar from the standard Invision setup as follows:
My Controls to Controls
My Assistant to Assistant
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The reason for the change was so we could add a link to 'Today's Topics', and still have all the text fit on one line when the board is displayed in 800x600 screen resolution. The 'today's topics' link was previously only accessible from the bottom of the board, and the consensus at the time was that it would be more useful if the option was available from the top of the board as well. I also added a quick login box to the member bar that shows at the top when logged out, again this was requested by some of our members who liked the convenience of not having to scroll to the bottom of the board to use quick login.
Hope this helps